Monday, November 12, 2018

TAROT THERAPY : WHY we are DESTINED to pick difficult partners & the pyramid Tarot spread

When we are asked to draw, write, describe our ideal life, partner or career - compared with the person next to us, we will definitely have different levels of expectations, needs & wants that makes us feel happy, fulfilled & wholesome. How was this idea of PERFECTION formed?

I have a Masters Degree in Performing Arts and I majored in Dance. But what MANY people do not know was that I wrote extensively about GENDER in DANCE in my thesis and hence, was required to read many books, publications & research papers on gender & gender psychology...
You know the saying that goes "Men will fall in love with women who are like their mothers & women will fall in love with men who are like fathers?"

ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛs ᴛᴏ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ʙᴇғᴏʀᴇ ᴡᴇ ᴄᴀɴ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ, ᴡᴇ ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ғɪʀsᴛ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ ᴏᴜʀsᴇʟᴠᴇs 🌎🌍🌏 . . Pictures from my mini “How to attract Love, Wealth & Happiness into your life” seminar & mingle event a few weeks back! I would like to announce that I have just launched an online booking system where you can check my schedule & directly book Online Tarot Readings with me link in bio ( ⬆️⬆️⬆️✨✨✨ . . On another note, I have 📝 written a blog post on on the Topic "WHY we are destined to pick difficult partners" & How I use the "Pyramid Tarot Spread" to determine if there are childhood issues/blockages/long-standing issues that are stopping you from achieving ultimate happiness in life 🌺🌸🌼🌻 . . #selfreflection #seminar #love #mingle #lawofattraction
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Based on the many research papers that I have studied, it is proven to be TRUE. I even snuck a book out from the library to photostat it...LOL! don't report me to my university!!!

Of course, in any "case studies" and researches, there are often that "exception to the rule" and also variables that will affect the "hypothesis" but that's another story for another day.

Our idea of beauty & love comes from what we see, observe, listen, know when we were a child. For example, I often pick childish spoilt brats as serious boyfriends because my late father (sorry dad!) was a childish spoilt brat (spoilt rotten by my grandmother!) and at the same time, I'm guilty of not discussing my feelings with my partner(s) because my mum is the type that keeps her problems and unhappiness to herself. At the same time, appearance-wise, I'm attracted to guys who are classy, tall, fair skinned, educated, speaks eloquently, dress well, etc because as a kid, my mother told me that Prince William (albeit balding now, lol) is the type of guy I should marry (My mum is a HUGE Princess Diana fan!)

What do we do then?

Your brain & mind is an AMAZING thing, though it takes a lot of practice and effort, you'll ALWAYS have the capability to reprogram your mind by making conscious efforts!

For example, though I still attract A LOT of spoilt brats because I often remind them of their strong, nurturing, over-protective mother, I consciously calculate the risk of being with these men - are they husband material? are they mentally/emotionally/spiritually stable? are they at the phase of life where they are ready to settle down or still wants to party every night? Do they have a lot of vices (smoking, gambling, drinking) (which is a complete no-no for me)? Would they be able to make wise decisions when they are under pressure? etc...

I also try my best to explain my feelings to guys that I am dating so that both of our expectations are met & managed.

Everyone wants to change the world, but before one can change the world, they would first need to change themselves

I can always tell if my querent (Tarot Clients) have long-standing issues or childhood issues within the first 15 mins of their reading.

The pyramid spread is used to look at past issues that are stopping us from achieving ultimate happiness in life - childhood issues, insecurities, etc.

Also, I found a video on YouTube that further explains what I have said above.

DISCLAIMER : To love a person is to love them for who they are & to accept their past. BUT, there's a difference between loving a person who is (for example) not physically attractive versus a person who CHEATS, LIES, STEAL, ABUSES YOU and have ADDICTION issues. A serial killer will always be a serial killer, a cheater will always be a cheater & an addict will always be an addict. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.

Got a burning question? Wanna a FULL Tarot Reading to gain clarity? Email me at or PM me on my Facebook page to book a slot.

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